Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Modern Day Job

Anyway, this is about my friend Steve, who's been one of my best friends ever since grade school. (Yea, I know...that goes back a ways, doesn't it?) A couple of years ago, Steve's wife Eileen was diagnosed with Stage 4 liver cancer, and she's been undergoing surgery for that. She underwent surgery a few months ago at Sloan-Kettering in NYC to rebuild her entire biliary system. She recovered remarkably well from that, and that area appeared to be cancer-free, only to have the cancer appear on her lungs. A couple weeks ago she underwent surgery to remove tumors there. The doctors said the norm is about 5 tumors; she had 20. So she's revoering from that. She can't undergo anymore chemo because her bone marrow is shot.

On top of that, Steve was laid off from his job at the local newspaper. He had found a job at another newspaper about 100 miles away, then that newspaper laid him off as well. Because all his experience is with newspapers (circulation management), and because the newspaper industry basically sucks, he couldn't find work. Meanwhile he insurance and medical bills were piling up. Finally, he took a job in California (family lives in northern Michigan, btw), so he's apart from his family all through Eileen's ordeal. Although the new employer is very nice; they gave him travel money for 5 trips back home as part of his package. And this week, his father passed away from complications from leukemia.

So, you know I am a person of faith..in God and people. And I know we are never promised life will be easy, but we do have the promise that God will be with us through it all, and ultimately good will win over the evil. But, in the face of all this, I'm not sure how anyone can endure it without those words sounding hollow. And while I am grateful my problems don't approach anything like that, I realize they could. And that scares me.